If you are very drawn to some body, you intend to inspire that person, whether or not it means not your self. You never act like your own regular self before that individual because you want them to like you so terribly. And it does not even matter to you as long as they like you a lot for aˆ?youaˆ? or otherwise not.
You just want to feeling liked and validated by them. Therefore as opposed to are yourself, you depict yourself as a version of your self which they desire appreciate.
This may work out for you personally when you look at the short-run (perhaps), it is not a good way actually. When every minute actually starts to feel just like disclosing their true self will jeopardize your own union, its an indication of infatuation.